Why do so many straight people feel the need to judge us?

I'm not a thing like that and neither are my friends. I would guess that perhaps she is afraid she is gay and because she sounds like she is a fundie, she's most likely had it pounded into her head that it is "bad". So she and people like Ted Haggard and George Reker go after gay people who aren't afraid to come out to try to draw attention away from themselves.